If you’re separated, taking your child on holiday might not be as simple as booking flights and packing bags. If you and your ex-partner share parental responsibility, you will need to get their permission.

This blog post will explain;

  • The legalities around taking a child abroad after separation
  • What you can do if your ex-partner refuses, and
  • How we can help if things go wrong

 

I Want to Take My Child Abroad on Holiday, Do I Need Permission from My Ex-Partner?

If both parents have parental responsibility, you must have the other parent’s permission (or any others with parental responsibility) to take your child abroad. This applies to vacations, visiting family, or any other trip.

 

What is Parental Responsibility?

Parental responsibility gives parents the legal right to make decisions about their child’s upbringing. Such as where they live, their education, and medical care. If you and your ex share parental responsibility, you need their consent to take your child out of the country.

If you have a Child Arrangements Order that says your child lives with you, you can take them abroad for up to 28 days without needing permission. However, this only applies for holidays, not permanent relocation.

 

What Happens if My Ex-Partner Refuses to Give Permission?

If your ex-partner refuses to give permission, there are several steps you can take:

1. Try Mediation

Mediation is often the first step in resolving disputes about travel plans. A neutral mediator can help you and your ex discuss your concerns and work towards a solution. This approach is quicker and less stressful than going to court.

2. Apply for a Specific Issue Order

If mediation doesn’t work or isn’t an option, you can apply to the family court for a Specific Issue Order. This allows the court to decide on whether your child can travel abroad. The court will always act in the best interests of the child, considering factors like:

  • The purpose of the trip (e.g., family holiday, visiting relatives, etc.)
  • How long the trip will last
  • The impact of the trip on the child’s relationship with the other parent

Our team of specialist child law solicitors can help you apply for Specific Issue Orders.

 

Can I Take My Child Abroad Without Permission?

That taking your child abroad without your ex’s consent could lead to serious consequences. This can include accusations of parental child abduction. Even if your intentions are innocent, failure to follow the proper legal process could result in;

  1. Fines
  2. Custody changes, or even
  3. Criminal charges.

If you’re worried that your ex might take your child abroad without your permission, we can help you apply for a Prohibited Steps Order to prevent it from happening.

 

What if My Ex Won’t Return My Child?

If your ex takes your child abroad;

  1. Without permission, and
  2. Refuses to bring them back.

This could be considered child abduction, and you should seek legal advice immediately. Our solicitors are experts in dealing with international child abduction case. We can act quickly to ensure your child is returned safely.

 

Why Choose Ringrose Law?

At Ringrose Law, we understand how emotionally challenging these situations can be.

We can provide compassionate support throughout the process. We’ll make sure you’re informed and confident every step of the way.

With years of experience, we’ll work to protect your rights and ensure the best outcome for you and your family.

  • Experts in Child Abduction Cases: Our solicitors specialise in complex family law matters.
  • Compassionate Support: We offer both legal guidance and emotional reassurance during challenging times.
  • Clear Communication: We keep you fully informed and explain every step of the process.

Get in Touch

If you need help getting permission to take your child abroad, or if your ex-partner is refusing to cooperate, don’t hesitate to get in touch. Our experienced team is here to provide expert legal advice and support tailored to your situation.
0333 3580 393